that's cool. but honestly i never see korean + white couples. i know they exist but i don't see them. espcecially like our age girls? i don't know a single korean girl with a white boyfriend... and i'm sure you don't see them either ._. but good luck!
I’ve seen them! I used to live in a neighborhood predominantly populated by white and asians so maybe it’s more common to me. LOL
LOL. It’s almost embarrassing to admit because it’s SO SPECIFIC. I’ve always had the idea of marrying a white missionary with an arm tattoo who has a fantastic sense of humor and integrity. A man after God’s own heart. I don’t know why I envision him as a white man… Probably to break the whole culture thing. I don’t really mix in well with Korean culture and to be honest… I don’t want my kids to be either.
9 If I rise on the wings of the dawn, if I settle on the far side of the sea, 10 even there your hand will guide me, your right hand will hold me fast. 11 If I say, “Surely the darkness will hide me and the light become night around me,” 12 even the darkness will not be dark to you; the night will shine like the day, for darkness is as light to you.
Getting personal in your writing doesn’t make you “immature”. Expressing your thoughts and emotions through words that inspire, tug at hearts that can relate, or makes someone smile… That doesn’t make you “immature”.
Holding it in and later bursting out in frustration is immature. Spilling your thoughts out to someone you can barely trust is immature.
But writing is healthy. It’s good for the soul. It turns the worst memories into something beautiful.
LOL not trying to be creepy, but i LOVE your eyebrows! They have great shape and color (like not sparse, I guess). What do you do to get them to look so nice?
HAHAAH Thank you! Truth is, my naked eyebrows SUCK. They’re coarse, spaced out, grow all over the place, and I have so many ingrown hairs… It’s nasty.
Basically I just sweep some MAC Brow Set in “Beguile” over them to kind of keep them in place and fill in the gaps. It also adds some height to my arch because my natural arch isn’t very high and I have a fat face. I feel like brow gels are the most natural looking. =) Grooming wise I just tweeze and use an eyebrow razor because I’m too lazy to wax them all the time.
You told me you hate to see me cry, to see me hurting, but you've hurt me once, twice, thrice, and many more after that. I cried, once, twice, thrice, and many more after that because you've hurt me. Of all those times, were you closing your eyes?
Woke up this morning with the worst case of food poisoning I’ve had so far along with period cramps… So the only memory I have of hurricane Irene was when I tried to open my window and was barely able to close it cause of the wind. And then I threw up some more.
We were best friends in middle school. I know, right? It’s so embarrassing. I don’t even… Whatever. So then in eighth grade, Katrina hit, and Irene was like, weirdly jealous of her. Like, if I would rate her a 1, and I’d rate Katrina a 3, she’d be like, “Why am I rated so low?” And I’d be like, “Why are you so obsessed with me?” So then, for my birthday party, which was an all-category 3 and up party, I was like, “Irene, I can’t invite you, because you’re category 1.” I mean I couldn’t have a category 1 at my party. There were gonna be storms wiping out entire cities there. I mean, right? She was a CATEGORY 1. So then her mom called my mom and started yelling at her, it was so retarded. And then she dropped out of school because no one would talk to her, and she came back in August, and now I guess she’s destroying the entire East Coast.
OK.. I told myself I wouldn’t… But I always get myself 2 pairs of circle contacts before Fall semester starts and I’d hate to break the tradition… :( You know?
Max Pure Pink
Tear Brown. (This used to be my FAVORITE pair back in the day. I finally decided to get another pair this year and I love love love it! It basically is clear with little flecks of light brown and it makes your eyes sparkle.)
Things you've learned through your experience with relationships?
When it comes to relationships, I think you need to experience it on your own to really understand and learn from them. Growing up I’ve always had people tell me what to look for and what to avoid but I never listened until I went through it for myself. Here’s a few things I’ve learned through my experiences.
Never settle for less. This doesn’t mean look for people with a lot of money, a nice car, good looks, perfect body, etc. When you’re dating, make sure that person is treating you with respect. Don’t settle on someone who you know isn’t going to treat you right. As much as you want to give people a clean slate, if you know they have a history of cheating or abuse… Be extra cautious.
Put God first. To be honest, if a relationship isn’t edifying to God.. It’s not going to work out. I’m saying this through experience. You’re not going to be happy. If you aren’t seeking God a million times harder than you are pursueing your bf/gf… There’s a problem. Stay away from idolatry. I can’t stress that enough… Instead of asking God for a great relationship with your bf/girl, ask for a life of fulfillment. Which would you rather have?
Don’t let a relationship get in the way of your life. Focus on school, friends, family, church, etc. Especially if you’re at my age or even younger… School, friends, family, and church is going to last so much longer than your relationship.
Don’t settle. I know people don’t like to waste their time, but you need to think practically. Settling causes so many problems later on down the road and it just makes things SO much more difficult. I made a blog post about this before explaining why…
When you do find someone worth your time, be selfless. It’s not about what the person can do for you, it’s about what you can do for that person. This is why people are so unhappy with their bf/gfs… They think too selfishly and are so caught up in what their partner isn’t doing for them when they never considered what they are doing for their partner.
After a break up, take time for yourself. Hang out with your friends and use the time to get your priorities straight. No one’s head is in the right place after a break up. Do some soul searchin.
Lastly, don’t let a bad relationship affect you in any negative way. I’ve had guys screw me over so much -__-… You wouldn’t even believe. I know sometimes it gets hard to think it’s true but there ARE good boys and girls out there. You just have to notice it. Pay attention to the qualities you look for in a person. Don’t be sad that a relationship went wrong. Use it to your advantage. And honestly, if you and a person are meant to be together through God’s will… You guys WILL end up together. There’s no doubt about that.
My friends went out to get 53rd and 6th chicken and rice. I didn’t go because I was too afraid to sneak out. LOL. But I am glad because I love having long, deep, and late conversations with people. It makes my heart happy. (Although I’m starving.)
LOL.. these questions, man. honestly, i doubt a guy like him will ever be able to find a girl who will put up with what i had to put up with and care the way i did. he got lucky and he blew it. *shrugs*
I’ve been expecting this day to come for so long and I thought I would feel bitterness, hatred, resentment, or even regret… But instead I can’t help but to feel this deep sorrow for the person’s heart.